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Embalming – To Be or Not To Be?

April 7th, 2007

Embalming a body for transient preservation is an archaic practice that can be traced back to the ancient Egyptians - and was used perhaps even before. Though the methods have changed somewhat, the idea of bodily preservation by removing the fluids and replacing them with chemicals (natural or unnatural) has remained the same.

The practice of embalming bodies for viewing or burial has no roots in any particular religion. Indeed, some religions - orthodox Jewish and Muslim, for example - prohibit embalming as it is considered a desecration of the body.

The practice of embalming only came into common use after the Civil War in the United States. In 1861, Dr. Thomas Holmes, injected the bodies of slain soldiers with a mixture of arsenic and water; the intention being to preserve them for the journey home so that they could be buried by family members. Arsenic was the choice ingredient in embalming fluids until around 1910, when it was decided to pose too much of a health risk.

Today, embalming fluids are usually a mixture of formaldehyde (5-29%), methanol, ethanol (9-65%), and other solvents. Embalming fluid is highly toxic, and embalmers are required to wear full-body covering, and often a respirator, while handling it.

The internal organs are not removed during embalming, contrary to popular belief. Instead, bodily fluids are removed while embalming fluids are pumped into the body; usually arterially.

A common misconception of today's public - and that some of the more unscrupulous funeral homes may claim - is that embalming is required by law before burial. It is, in fact, not - unless the body needs to be moved across state lines.

Although it is not law, most funeral homes do require embalming if there is to be a public viewing; as the process gives the body a more "agreeable" appearance (dyes are injected into the embalming fluid to give the now-dead skin more color). Those that wish to give private viewings in their homes or who plan to have a closed casket service, however, do not have to embalm the body of their loved one.

Another myth is that embalming preserves a body forever more; this is untrue. There is nothing - not even the most perfectly, sealed casket - that can accomplish this. Embalming is a temporary preservative, and nothing more. The body will, eventually, decay.

Those that are squeamish about being embalmed often opt for cremation; though some bodies - those that are viewed before being cremated - are embalmed as well.

Green burial is fairly new on the scene, and offers simple burials in wooden caskets with no preservation methods taken. Proponents of "green burials" believe that returning to the Earth as quickly and naturally as possible is a more environment-friendly - and logical - way to go.

The decision to be embalmed isn't a momentous one; you'll be dead, after all - but it is something to discuss with your family. Embalming is an invasive process and many religions do not allow it. If you aren't comfortable with the idea, you should let your family members know and discuss other options.

There is a wealth of information on embalming, even down to the exact details of the process, on the Internet. I urge you to look into these and understand the process, and the alternatives. Embalming - though the standard in our society - isn't for everyone.

After Death, And Its Relation to Graving

March 31st, 2007

Sometimes this blog will delve into, what I call, "After Death" practices, and the things that may happen to a body on it's way to the grave. Having an interest in graving usually means an interest in all things grave-related, including what happens to our bodies after death - at least, this is so for me. For this reason, I seek to cover all aspects of graving, cemeteries, death, and after-death care in this blog.

Why would someone want to know what happens to a body after death? For some it's morbid curiosity, for others its a way to face the fear of dying. The unknown is often much more frightening than the known; even if the known is substantially disturbing. It may be disconcerting to hear and see what happens to us after we take our last breath, but it is often less daunting than the images the mind may conjure up for lack of true knowledge. I'd rather be knowledgeable about a subject, even one I'd rather not know about, than to let my imagination run wild on what could happen.

As much as we try to ignore Death, or push anything related to it under the rug, it is an inevitable fact that each and every one of us will experience it at some point in our lives. Some day, maybe sooner or maybe later, our lives will come to an end. Our individual trip around the Sun will cease, at least for this lifetime, and we will leave our bodies.

Knowing about after-death care and procedures may not be something you are comfortable with, but it is something you should think about. It is something you should decide upon while you are still living - no matter your age - to help your grieving family members at the time of your death. Knowing what you want done and how you want it done will be one less thing your family will have to worry about at the time of your passing. If not for yourself, for your family, at least, you should be knowledgeable about what choices you have for the care of your body after death.

Beyond that, it is a personal choice. Some people would rather not know what becomes of their earthly shells once they are interred; others would quite like to know. This blog will address such issues - about after-death care and choices of interment or cremation, and what the pros and cons are of each. Such posts will be found in the After Death category.