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Purple Heart

April 16th, 2011

I was quite excited to have stumbled upon, and been able to record, the grave of a recipient of the United States' infamous Purple Heart.

According to Wikipedia, the Purple Heart is:

...a United States military decoration awarded in the name of the President to those who have been wounded or killed while serving on or after April 5, 1917 with the U.S. military.

I wasn't even supposed to be graving that day, I just happened to stop at a small cemetery next to the beautiful and historic Grace Episcopal Church in St. Francisville, called Mount Carmel Catholic Church Cemetery, and decided to snap a few photos of the interesting, modern graves there.

Many were young people with photos on their graves - their headstones filled with images and bereft words from those they'd left behind.  You can see some of these in my Picasa album over at Google.

While there, be sure to see the three photos of the headstones of Danny "Rod" Rodriguez.  He's got a lovely black marble headstone and his footstone is the traditional veteran's marker, indicating that he was a Purple Heart recipient.

We can see that Danny, born in 1948 and who died in 1993, fought in Vietnam.

Incessant Google searches turned up nothing on the handsome man who was an Army soldier that earned a Purple Heart in Vietnam, was known as "Rod" to friends, who loved to hunt and was a "Loving and Devoted Husband, Father and Friend".

Sometimes all we have are the headstones left to tell a story, but if you look close enough the picture can be filled in quite well - other times, however, it can leave even more of a mystery.

We can learn a good bit about Danny from his headstone, but we know nothing of his actual life, where he was born or how he died.

There is truly a story behind every headstone; what may be just another grave to you is, without a doubt, a very special marker commemorating a person who was beloved and dearly missed by family and friends.

The tapestry of their life, who they were, what they did, how they loved and lost, strove and tarried, is often a mystery...and that's part of the beauty for me - as a storyteller - of a cemetery.

Do you have any Purple Heart grave photos you've snapped?  If so, please photo reply.

The Cemetery

Danny is buried in what I dub the "newer" part of the beautiful, moss-draped, sun-dappled graveyard that surrounds Gothic and historic Grace Episcopal Church Cemetery in the special little town of St. Francisville, on the Mississippi River in West Feliciana Parish.  Though partially connected, this is actually Mount Carmel Catholic Church Cemetery.

Most of us here in south Louisiana have a bit of a love affair with the historical little town - it's beauty is lush and its history abundant.  If you have a passion for history, old settlements, or long-standing plantation homes, then you must visit - in person or even online - St. Francisville (est. 1809).

The town was founded by Capuchin friars who crossed the river from Pointe Coupee Parish to bury their dead on the bluffs.  The settlement that grew up around this boneyard was named after their patron saint, St. Francis.

The "newer" part of the cemetery I spoke of is actually quite old and is called the Old Burying Grounds and, though connected to the older cemetery and church of Grace, is not related (the one being Anglican/Episcopal and the other Catholic).

Both cemeteries are worth a trip, as is the town itself.  Across the river lies the historic city of New Roads, in Pointe Coupee Parish, that was established in the 1720s by settlers from France and is one of the oldest settlements along the Mississippi River.

Of interesting note is the town's oxbow lake, False River, that formed around 1772 when the Mississippi changed course during seasonal flooding and cut a shorter channel eastward.  Before this, the area of False River was the main channel of the Mississippi, affording cities like New Roads extensive chances to grow at the time.

(A bit off-topic, but I was surprised - during my research - to find that my grade school Alma mater, False River Academy, has its own Wikipedia page!)

There is a ferry that has long gone between St. Francisville and New Roads - many take it daily to get to and from work.  Currently (finally) a bridge - the John James Audubon - is being built to connect the two communities and land masses; it is slated to be finished this year and will be the longest cable-stayed bridge in North America.

Nearly Forgotten

November 5th, 2008

I almost missed the grave of Katie Lane when I dropped in on Harelson Cemetery for an impromptu graving trip.  It was against a fence; deep within a thick mess of underbrush.  You had to fight your way in just to get to where she was buried - if that is even the original spot of her headstone.

Katie, barely nineteen years-old when she died in 1903, is one of those "forgotten" graves - and persons - that are so important to me in my hobby and research.  It saddens me to think that she is not remembered, not looked for, and never commemorated.  Flowers have probably not been put on her grave in close to a century; eyes have probably not been laid upon her headstone a dozen times in the last ten years.

No one thinks to remember young Katie; there is no one left to care that she lived or died.

The best that I can do for her is memorialize her here.  All I could find, so far, was mention of her living with her family in the 1900 U.S. Census.

Katie L. Lane lived in what was then East Baton Rouge parish, Police Jury Ward 7, with her parents Joseph and Emma Lane.  I believe this area is now considered part of Iberville parish.

Her father, sixty-two years of age at the time, was from New York and a carpenter.  Her mother, whose surname I only know begins with a "G", was a Louisiana native and was fifty-one in 1900.  Katie was fifteen at the time.

She lived with a bevy of siblings:

  • Mary Bell, 27
  • Maud D., 25
  • Pearl E., 21
  • Ethel, 18
  • Carlile A., 11
  • Leslie B., 7

From the 1920 Census, I see her parents still living and all of her siblings, even her older sisters now in their forties, single and living with them.

This is all I could find - so far - on poor, forgotten Katie L. Lane.  It is my hope that she will be remembered or perhaps someone will stumble across this post and recognize her as an ancestor.  Until then, rest in peace, Katie; you are not forgotten.

In Lieu of Flowers…

March 7th, 2008

On March 6, 2008 at approximately 8:45am MST, the mother of one of my dearest friends, Gaylene DePorter, lost her courageous battle against Medullary Thyroid Carcinoma; a rare form of thyroid cancer that spread, unchecked, into her liver.

Surrounded by her loved ones, Gaylene was aware of what was happening to her and before she slipped into a hepatic encephalopathy coma, she was able to tell them all that she loved them.

This feisty, vibrant, and strong woman will be laid to rest on Saturday, March 8th. In lieu of flowers, her family asks that donations be made, in her name, to either The American Cancer Society or The Lance Armstrong Foundation.

I, too, ask that you contribute - even if it is just a couple of dollars - to one or the other. In the past year, I have seen three people now lose their lives to cancer. First, Jenny Martin - entirely too young to see her life ended. Then, a co-worker, Kenneth Robichaux, that we all called "Robi"; a brilliant and charming man the world is much the less for losing. Now, my dear friend's mother - life snipped short in her prime, golden years.

I once vehemently decried to a close friend of mine, "I hate cancer!" He, an active member of the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation ever since his wife had become a breast cancer survivor, said something that has stuck with me through the years. "Yes,", he answered, "but what are you doing about it?"

We can despise and rally against the awful disease that claims so many lives - young and old - or we can do something about it. A few dollars spared to the on-going research for a cure is the very least we can do in this battle that every one of us has a stake in. Cancer is something that affects everyone's life - whether you have had it, know someone who has, or watched a loved one suffer through it - all of us have come into contact with this deadly and terrible disease in one form or another.

Cancer is something we all fear and despise, yet shall we stand idly by while it claims the lives of children and adults at alarming rates? Or shall we do something - no matter how small - to take a stand against this deadly killer? Please, make a donation - do it for Jenny. Do it for Robi. Do it for Gaylene. Do it for all of the millions of lives lost, young and old, and the millions more whose lives were shattered by this disease. Just, please, do it.

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